We held our first backyard activity of the new year this weekend. We put a fire in the fire pit.
As ever, the order is tender, kindling, firewood.
It took a while, because someone put wet wood — and not the kindling and firewood I’ve been storing out of the elements for just this purpose — in the firepit, but pine straw is eager to burn and when I got enough of that in there you could hear the water sizzling away until, finally, we got those relaxing looking coals to stare at.
It was a good way to mark the weekend, a great way to start the outdoor season, which should run right up until December if last year was any indication. March to December? I’d take that, happily. It was sunny again today, but rainy or damp, and cool, for the rest of the week. We’re just waiting for the mercury to climb a few degrees higher.
OK, here’s the last photo from our recent trip to Cozumel. I’ve rationed these out for two months, and that’s better than I expected. (Don’t worry, we’re going to be able to stretch out the remaining videos for a good long while, too.)
This is the photo where I once again thank our trip planner and my dive buddy. Dive buddies serve a lot of roles. They point out stuff you might have overlooked. They help verify the stories you come back with. These days, of course, they help document the adventure. And they also help ensure your safety. (Or whatever.)
And I want to tell you a story about my dive buddy. In Cozumel, you do a lot of drift diving. You drop off the boat, go to the depth of the dive profile and just let the current take you … that way. The boat above follows your bubbles and picks up in another place. When you do it right, this is peaceful, easy, diving. It is one day diving. You learn quickly that, even on a light current day that the water is in control. And so you make your peace with it. You’re going this direction. You’ll see some great things. You’ll miss some things. C’est la plongĂ©e. Or, I guess, eso es bucear.
You don’t swim against the current.
So we’re going along on this one dive. The six divers and the dive master, Max, an Italian who has worked and dove all over the world. We’re all stretched out in a line, lingering here, drifting there. I’m about the fourth one back. My lovely bride is one or two people ahead of me.
Coming the other direction is a beautiful eagle ray, which migrates through that region in January and February. You see it, you admire it, you swim on. My dive buddy turns around and swims after it to capture video footage. Max and the other four divers are impressed. She’s swimming against the current, probably 100 yards, closing the distance on a creature designed for this environment.
Max this worldly, long professional, very cool ciao Italian man, looks at me his eyes as wide as his mask. The expression for “What?” works in any language, in any part of the world, under any body of water. I shrugged and nodded.
A little while later, we happen upon a turtle, and that tortuga is also swimming opposite us. The Yankee again turns, closes the distance, passes the turtle, and gets in front of it for another photo or video opportunity. We’re at the front of the group this time, and so she swims upstream past the other five people, who are in disbelief. When she finally turned to join us once more, they were still watching. I gestured to her to show the muscles. Everybody else needed to see the gun show.
And, look, she wasn’t even breathing hard.
After the dive, Max and I are the last ones in the water, waiting to climb on the boat. He said to me that he’d never seen anyone do that, and certainly not twice. I guess he’d never been diving with a varsity athlete, a three-time Ironman, a five-time USA National Championship triathlete and a FINA world championship swimmer.
It was, without a doubt, impressive, but not surprising. Not to me. I’ve been surprised by all of it before. And I need all of the air in my tank just to keep up with her.
We’re still working on her fire-building skills.