Friday


21
Jul 23

Into the weekend

It was a big day over here on the inner coastal plain. My lovely mother-in-law came for a visit this weekend. She is presently putting her stamp of approval on the property. Perhaps we’ll go out to see a few of the local small town charms this weekend.

Today, the try-hard pest control people came for a visit. They smiled and were encouraging and enthusiastic and sure of themselves. They petted the cats. They would not take any of my cardboard boxes. But they did wave around the wands on their high pressure rigs. And, for some reason, one of the guys brushed down the sides of the house with a giant broom.

At the very least, we look industrious to the new neighbors? One hopes, anyway.

It was a full day without feeling like it. Or, it was a day that went by fully without feeling heavy. A fine summer Friday leading into a relaxing weekend. Just what most everyone should have.

How fine a summer’s day? Let me sum it up like this: a family friend who was passing through stopped in to join us for lunch. We dined outside on a tomato pie and a pretty incredible strawberry salad. If everyone had been wearing white we could have looked like extras in The Great Gatsby. (Also, I’m a solid strawberry solid convert now.)

Here are a few more clips from the Barenaked Ladies show we saw on Wednesday.

This is an old, old, deep cut. You had to buy this on a cassette way back when. The band was still very Canadian-centric at the time. Probably they hadn’t even heard of the United States at this point. Which would be odd, considering they’re from just across Lake Ontario.

Do you need a bass solo to get your weekend started? You need a bass solo to get your weekend started.

I’ll get another couple days out of this show, not to worry.

Happy weekend!


14
Jul 23

Romeo and Juliet

I’m putting this up front because I want to. Because it is great. Because you should listen to it.

Mark Knopfler wrote this song. “Romeo and Juliet” is a big part of the Dire Straits catalog. It’s a classic song, and that means it has been covered a lot. But this is Amy Ray’s song now. Her intensity with this puts it in a class by itself. I’ve heard the studio recording, of course, and a few live recordings, but I’ve never been seen her do this song in person. It’s a rock ‘n’ roll moment, no doubt about it.

Goosebumps.

They’re playing a few hours from here in a few more months. Maybe we should go see them again. We should go see them again.

Today we made a recycling run. Always a little smelly, but also satisfying. We stopped at the local hardware store, at place that still holds the name from way back when ice and coal were the big sellers. On the sign out front they were advertising a now oddly popular horse wormer medicine. We met the owner, Doug, and his son, who looked like a young, bearded version of Gregory Sporleder, their high school employee, who’s name I did not catch, and two cats almost as big as any of the humans in the store.

They had one of the three things we went in for. We’ll get the other two online, I’m sure.

This afternoon I took a nap, dozing off while reading a Belgian poet’s journal. My second nap in two weeks, this summer is going great, thanks for asking!

And then we went for a run. Mine was twice as long, but not as good as my Tuesday run, which was my first run in seven months … maybe because I didn’t have take off seven months. I should really look into that. The Yankee had a nice run, though.

It was 84 and felt like 90 degrees and, well, it felt like it. Good timing on our part for that run.

The sunset, off the front porch, was lovely as well.

And now, at the time of night when Saturday seems long enough to mean everything seems possible, I say to you, happy weekend!


7
Jul 23

‘How much should I swim today?’

Yeah. It’s about time for this.

I just did a little set. So small you probably shouldn’t even call it a set. But, to be fair to myself, I haven’t done laps since the 17th. Of November. Of 2015.

But, when time and opportunity finally meet, you tri.

Great way to spend a Friday evening.


30
Jun 23

Status: lol

We unpacked stuff today. Moved boxes from one room to the other. Organized tubs. Started figuring out how to store things in the basement. And then we unpacked a few more things. We did all of this until we decided we didn’t want to do it anymore.

And then we stopped.


16
Jun 23

The quiet sort of Friday

Another quiet Friday. What a wonderful sentence fragment! Ordinarily — OK, sometimes, if I caught it — I’d rewrite that. There’s no need to do anything to that sentence (fragment) in the lovely part of the middle of June. So I’m leaving it.

It’s a Friday.

It’s the countermelodies. To hear those you have to learn words. Then you can really hear the countermelodies. From there, you can get to whatever earnest thing that draws you into the emotional aspect of music. To me, what jumps up has always been the intensity and the vulnerability. The through-line for both is an unforgiving sort of sincerity. And that’s what you find in the countermelodies.

Why, yes, I am going to get another week or so of playing songs from this concert. This is a good thing. Anyway, here’s the song most people think of as their first Indigo Girls song. It was a 1994 folk-pop crossover hit, to be sure, on an album that went platinum and peaked at number nine on the US charts. The video received a lot of MTV airplay.

Probably I’ve only just described people like me. Their first four albums earned two golds and three certified platinum designations. Those successes notwithstanding, this was another opportunity for more people to walk in. I clearly had a lot of catching up to do, I did, and it was great.

When bands play their signature songs, these sometimes-iconic anthems, these we-burn-it-down-if-this-isn’t-in-the-setlist hits, I often try to think back to what it was like to hear it for the first time. It’s a silly little mind game. It’s just a song. Sometimes they are modest hits, sometimes bigger than that. But the meaning that comes along with them comes along over time. Listen to how The Ryman responded when Emily Saliers plucks the first few strings there. They didn’t do that the first time they heard it. There’s, now, almost 30 years of meaning and enthusiasm in that song.

I just learned something trivial and interesting. In 2020, The Indigo Girls became the first duo to reach the Billboard Top 200 in five different decades. Each one builds on the last. Body of work and all of that. It started before 1994, but for me it started, right there, with that song, in 1994.