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19
Sep 11

We do not talk like pirates

Talk Like a Pirate Day today, of course, but there are no “Yarrrs” or speeches about torrents or proxy IP addresses. Today is my lovely wife’s birthday, and it just seems wrong to share such a day with a fake slogan. I can talk like a pirate any day.

I just choose not to do so.

I wrapped one a last present, and then pleaded my ignorance about how it got there. She opened her fourth and fifth cards that have been spread out about the house since last week. And then I installed the new present. It only took four tries!

It is a special light fixture, which may not sound like your idea of a present, but she asked for it specifically. And it glows in the dark. You can imagine our entertainment.

The first installation attempt I tried following the instructions. On the second and third tries I operated on the assumption that the instructions were wrong. The sticker said Made in China and, while the English was straight from a solid 101 class, the first screw stripped with less than half-a-turn.

When this happens you immediately move beyond a need for the installation instructions.

On the fourth try, though, I decided to give them one more good faith effort and, what do you know.

And now one of our rooms is lit even when it isn’t.

We carefully saved the box and are preserving the old fixture because, as she said “That one is going with us if we ever move.”

Told you she liked it.

We had the traditional Japanese birthday dinner, surrounded by our new best friends, a 13-year-old in a poodle skirt who was just learning the joys and intricacies of ginger and wasabi and that she can’t trust her father for anything, ever, and a family of five, who eat there each week, who just bought a new car, who’s oldest plays fall baseball and who’s youngest is an unholy terror.

Also, the Japanese place in town does a Halloween costume contest ever year. Our chef has won the prize by going as Buddha and almost burned himself alive as Nacho Libre. Capes are flammable, and get this guy away from me.

The Japanese steakhouse is very instructive.

We also had a delicious slice of Oreo ice cream cake from the local place walk-up shop and tsettled in for a nice DVD date night.

She announced to the room in general that it was a great birthday.


25
Aug 11

Family pictures

Had the chance for a quick family trip and, amidst the visiting, I got a few old pictures.

This is my mother’s father. He died just after I was born, and so I know him through stories and pictures. Hard to imagine your grandfather ever looked like this, isn’t it?

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Here is his father, W.K., on the far left:

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Now I have a picture (or a scan of a picture) of my great-grandfather as a child. The man next to W.K. is his father, W.J. , my great-great-grandfather.

W.J. was born in 1860 and died in 1948. He might have had memories of the Civil War, definitely Reconstruction and probably read all about World War II in his local paper. Based on W.K.’s birthday, you can put that photograph as circa 1910.

The above dates are from Tidwell’s The Frank and Jesse James Saga. The book changes the family narrative somewhat. Prior to researching that text for this post, the thought was that there was an adoptive relationship. But, the book has a written family history that indicates that W.J., the older man in the above picture, was a cousin of the James boys. W.J. was orphaned as an infant (his father died in a Civil War prison camp and his mother died soon after) and adopted by his maternal grandparents. His grandfather, Joshua James, was the uncle of Frank and Jesse James.

Moving a generation or two into the future, here’s a picture I’ve had for some time:

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That very tall man young man in the background is my grandfather. The woman to his left is my grandmother. Their kids, my mother and uncle, are in the front center. The older couple are my mother’s father’s parents, my great-grandparents. My great-grandmother, on the far right, looked that way until the day she died four decades later. In 1995, she became the oldest ever graduate from the University of North Alabama. (One of her daughters was the youngest graduate, in the 1960s.) My great-grandfather, the oldest gentleman in the picture above, is the kid on the far left of the previous, ancient picture.

On the other side of the family, here’s a picture of my maternal grandmother’s father:

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That’s me on the right, and my cousin on the left. She’s all grown up, and has three kids who are now older than she is in that picture. I doubt she remembers him at all.

That building is still standing at my grandparent’s home. I have two or three scant memories of this great-grandfather, his home and the stories about others’ memories. Research on this side of the family isn’t as well developed, but can be traced back to a few family names I’ve never heard of elsewhere. Alas, there are no ties to outlaw folk heroes.

I love old pictures and the stories they whisper.


20
Jun 11

Happily Ever After

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Today is our second anniversary. What a wonderful adventure.


19
Jun 11

Happy Father’s Day

Step-father, Rick.

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Father-in-law, Bob.

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Grandfather, Clem.

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11
Jun 11

The last of the cruise pictures and notes

We’ll wake up in New Jersey tomorrow, so this is just to put a bow on the last of a great trip with nice people. There are a few pictures, a video, three panoramas and an interactive 3D photograph below.

Some people say this is the best beach in Bermuda. Tobacco Beach, was named by survivors of the famous Sea Venture after they discovered tobacco growing here. The snorkeling is said to be terrific. The cliff faces are limestone.

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One of the neat things about my father-in-law is the stuff he stores in his head. If he isn’t make a joke he’s trying to teach you something. I wonder what he’s telling her here:

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Our waiters for the trip, Delroy and Mario. They were quite good:

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On this, the last day of the cruise, we had what the crew called a “lavish” brunch. They understand the definition of this word. It was ridiculous; it was divine. Whenever you have a chocolate fountain for breakfast you are living right.

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We watched an ice carving demonstration yesterday. The guy just chopped up a block by hand into a screeching, striking eagle. After he finished people came up to take pictures of the sculpture. And then a woman stepped on a piece of ice, fell, knocked over a toddler and almost started a big fight by grown women. Remember, friends, ice is slippery. And watch your children.

Anyway, this was also at the brunch, and that’s a sculpture with utility:

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Some panoramas I’ve shot the last few days, click to see the full image.

Horseshoe

Horseshoe

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Want to see how a big ship leaves port? Four casting lines, a guy on the back pushing for all he’s worth and port-side thrusters.

And, finally, I’ve fooled myself into thinking that I’ve just about figured out the Photosynth software. Here’s an interactive, 3D view of the lovely Horseshoe Bay.

Miss it already.

Tomorrow we’ll be back in the States, and then late in the evening we’ll be back home.