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Jun 10

Visiting with dear friends

Justin and Atticus at Toys R Us

Justin and Atticus at Toys R Us

We were going to go swimming today, but storms took that out of the equation. So we went to Toys R Us instead.

We played with trains and Matchbox cars and all sorts of things. Justin and RaDonna had their niece and nephew with them for part of the day, so we all loaded up and visited Whole Foods, too.

Whole Foods, the kinder, gentler grocery store where the grungy alternative kids work, has plenty of healthy foods. And the store is made from a remarkable 143 percent of recyclable materials. They are very proud of this. There’s a poster explaining it by the restrooms. Wood in the store is from old barns. The metal decorations above the butcher area are from a thermonuclear warhead. The light is from the sun. The shopping carts were stolen from a Kroger down the street.

Only some of those are false.

It is a nice concept, though, putting into practice the old saying about one corporation’s garbage is another suburban grocery store’s treasure. Most of the recycled items were in place for the aesthetic, rather than function. It keeps these slivers of wood and steel and aluminum out of the landfill, at least until this store is razed.

We played in the toy area a while. We shopped. We played in the toy area some more.

RaDonna on the slide at Chick-fil-A.

RaDonna on the slide at Chick-fil-A.

We had a bite to eat at Chick-fil-A. They’ve changed the menu, but they have a sense of humor about it. We played on the Chick-fil-A playground. Or Atticus did. For the first time, perhaps, ever, there was a playground, a kid I was with playing on it and I did not take part. I feel so old.

We went to Target. I drove Atticus around in the shopping cart — not stolen from a Kroger down the street — backwards. He giggled.

Had a great visit, wish we could do it more. Hopefully we’ll get one or two more before Atticus’ birthday this fall when he’ll turn, unbelievably, five.


12
Jun 10

1-1, ties have never been more satisfying

We’ve been planning our World Cup watch party for weeks. Every day, it seemed, the people that were going to attend and the place we’d watch our historic thrashing of England changed. Up to the 11th hour, it seemed, the location shifted again. Our friend Andrew — who will join the faculty at East Tennessee State this fall — was going to come up from Tuscaloosa to take in the game. He was going to bring some friends, but at the last minute the configuration changed.

We’d decided to watch at an Irish pub and restaurant, the thinking being that the best place to watch the English play would be with a bunch of Irish. This might have been a possibility in Birmingham, there are a few folks from Ireland here. Instead we went to a place in Tuscaloosa. There were no Irishmen, but plenty of Americans.

The referee in the match might as well have been from England. After going down a goal in the fourth minute, fighting off 11 English players, the officials and our own dreadfully thin backfield — can’t we pull some people of Ray Lewis’ size and demeanor into the program? — we watched the Americans fight their way back to a satisfying draw. That’s a victory for the U.S. and probably a total flop for the English side.

When the game was over the music came on, featuring the perfect draw musician: Jimmy Buffett. You aren’t happy with the draw, but pretend you are. We met a grown man in a Cookie Monster shirt. It suited him, and he was just one of the interesting characters. At one point a horn blew. Not a trumpet or a vuvuzela, but a big Lord of the Rings-type horn. It was a colorful afternoon.

Your current time and temperature.

Your current time and temperature.

That was what we saw when we got back in the car after dinner with Wendy. In a related story, it is June.


11
Jun 10

Pictures, soccer, good company

I'm not allowed to do any more work.

I'm not allowed to do any more work.

So my goals for the next several days are to edit photographs and watch World Cup. The above is what happens when I try to do either one of those things for very long. The Yankee says that Allie likes me more than she likes her, but in truth it is just because I sit still more. Also, this cat loves walking on your keyboard.

Pictures. Lots of pictures. Started watching the World Cup, South Africa playing well to tie Mexico and France struggling to the same result against Uruguay. Funny how ties are perceived differently for each team. I’ll see all 64 World Cup games this year, just living the dream.

Speaking of living the dream, I had the great pleasure of sharing lunch with two wonderful ladies today. The Yankee and I joined our dear friend RaDonna at O’Carrs — try the chicken salad and fruit plate.

I met RaDonna while working with her husband, Justin, at al.com. He left to go to the Gadsden paper and is now the multimedia director at The Anniston Star. They are the sweetest people you could hope to know, and their son is the coolest boy I know, but they live too far away.  Visits with such good people shouldn’t be so rare.

There are now 233 photos on the site from our honeymoon. I suspect I might be about halfway through the project. On the one hand it is incredible to see the pictures again and think “Hey, we’ve just been there.” On the other hand I’m ready for a break from editing photographs.

Sick of hearing about it yet?

Simple, quiet, Pie Day for two tonight. Felt like we haven’t been to Jim N Nicks in ages. Mostly because we haven’t been in ages. For a weekly ritual the last two or three weeks have been our biggest absence in the almost six-year-old tradition.

Happily, Ward still recognized us.

Tomorrow, the US kicks off their World Cup run against England.