Thursday


17
Mar 16

Playing it low key

One of the reasons for the recent cat-in-car pics was to help remind her that the car wasn’t a bad thing. We took a four-hour trip to the family this week and brought Allie. So she was fine in the car, because she is familiar with the whole thing. She fusses getting in and is fidgety and vocal about the whole thing for the first three or four miles, but then she’s completely comfortable with it. I might stress about her stressing about the ordeal more than she does.

She sits in the back. She lounges in her carrier. She does laps from the backseat to the front passenger seat. (We keep her out of the driver’s seat, as we sane people.) And then she’ll get in the passenger floorboard. She’ll sit up and watch the world go by. And she’s has figured out that she somehow fits underneath the passenger seat. How that can be comfortable, I’ll never understand.

But she has a lot more room here:

That’s in the guest room at my folks’ new house. She’s a good house guest, too.


10
Mar 16

A 3-year-old’s life

We got to see Liam today. In a word, he’s healthy.

We were going to dinner with friends one night when The Yankee saw on Facebook that he’d just been diagnosed with a rare form of leukemia. His parents had found bruises that they couldn’t explain and so they went to the pediatrician and that doctor wisely sent them to Birmingham and they caught it in a hurry. I walked from the table at the restaurant that night to the restroom and looked up this form of leukemia, marveling at Google’s knowing what I meant, but also at the prognosis. If it was caught quickly, and with the proper care, it was a scary, hard thing, but easily survivable. And Liam’s parents are marvelous, and they’re fortunate to have good health care and he has had some scare times, and some hard years, and he’s spent too much of his early childhood in a car driving to hospitals, getting poked and prodded, wearing masks and helmets and having his social life limited. But the kid is doing great. He’s amazing. He walked in, sat on our sofa and pronounced it “Quite comfortable.” And then he just plays at that high speed that kids continually run in. Liam is healthy.

So this is a good reminder about how easy it is to register for blood marrow donations. You can do the entire effortless, painless registration in less time than it is taking you to read this. Send off for the forms. When they arrive, swab your cheeks, put them in the envelope and drop them in the mail. You’ve joined the national registry; maybe you’ll get the chance to help somebody one day. Find out more here.

In another word, he’s adorable. That kid has style. Completely holds a room with his charm. Though you wish he’d come out of his shell and be a bit more precocious.


26
Feb 16

Anybody got a good cold-weather hardball metaphor?

Feels great if you’re sitting in the sun.

Pretty chilly everywhere else.

But, you’ll sit through that if you enjoy baseball. February baseball.


25
Feb 16

Fortunes come with deadlines

We had Chinese tonight from our favorite little place in town. And of course there were fortune cookies, so here we are.

I like when your table’s fortune cookies fit in a theme. That seems to somehow validate the concept. But here’s the thing:

Even with leap year, this cookie is on the clock.

We’ll see, and I’ll let you know.


14
Jan 16

Running in the dark

This place is a big circle, and off that circle is a running path and it was a nice, warm day so I jogged three miles in the twilight.

I was thinking, as I shuffled and panted, that sometimes you know when big things are happening. And sometimes you don’t know. And I found myself, right about here, wondering why that is. How do you sometimes know, and other times life springs that sort of thing upon you?

I was trying to come up with a good hill metaphor, but I always get breathless on the hills. That never surprises me.